Feb 26

How to Improve Public Speaking: Four Tips that Will Turn You into an Expert Speaker

The great public speakers that you admire and wish you were like weren’t born that way. Anyone can become an expert speaker if you are willing to put in the time and effort and follow these four tips on how to improve public speaking. 1. Visualize Before your speech, imagine yourself standing in front of the others, sharing
 with them the information that they desire. Feel good about yourself when you visualize. Don’t imagine yourself failing. Know that when the day comes you will be calm, confident, and will succeed. 2. Practice Can practice make perfect? Not quite, but it will make it close if you practice correctly. Don’t feel that you must have your speech and gestures completely memorized. Over-practicing can be as bad as not practicing at all! Spend some of your practice time with preparation. Instead of writing out your entire speech, use notecards to outline the important points of your speech. Practice from these notecards until you are comfortable with the flow of your speech. If possible, practice in front of friends or family a few times. If no one is available to listen to you, turn yourself into your own audience and practice in front of the mirror. 3. Record Use a camcorder to record yourself giving speeches. This way you will be able to look at your performance objectively. Did you put your hands in your pockets? Did you use filler phrases such as “uh” and “like” too often? Don’t worry about the mistakes that you made. If you were already a perfect public speaker you wouldn’t have to practice! Be sure to find positive things about your speech giving as well. Approach someone who is experienced at public speaking and ask if they could give you any pointers after watching a few minutes of the tape. Many people will love to help and will be flattered that you consider them an expert. If you are uncomfortable approaching your expert, have some friends evaluate you instead. If they also want to know how to improve public speaking you can form a group and everyone can record themselves and do a group evaluation. 4. Join a Group

Dec 20

What Public Speaking Can Do for You

A Common FearFor many years, studies have shown that people are deathly afraid of speaking in public. After all, there is something inherently unnatural about standing up in front of a crowd and spouting off. To some people, talking in front of a crowd is not much of a challenge; in fact they relish
 the experience and cannot get enough of it. For the rest of us, speaking in public is as close to a real-life nightmare as it can get.Of course, it doesn’t have to be this way at all. Just about anyone can develop the skills needed to become a public speaker – after all, why should speaking on your feet be harder than when you speak sitting down? The difficulties in public speaking are mostly mental. When the mental barriers (such as shyness, lack of confidence, inexperience) are torn down, progress in public speaking can be made. Why You Should Learn To Speak In Public Learning to speak in public is no easy task, but it is by no means impossible. First, however, you should have a concrete reason why you would bother to spend the time and energy to learn such a skill. You may ask, what does one stand to gain from learning to speak in public? The answer – and this may sound a little corny – is happiness. We all want recognition for the things we do, and believe it or not, public speaking is a shortcut to being recognized, no matter what kind of work you are engaged in. Look around you and notice that the people who get the promotions and the top jobs aren’t necessarily those who are the best at a given type of work; they are usually those who are able to express their ideas well. By being able to communicate their thoughts clearly, they create the impression that they are experts, even if this may not actually be the case.

Nov 29

How to Overcome Your Fear of Public Speaking

Public speaking is stressful for the majority of people. However, the fear of public speaking, or glossophobia as it is called, is more serious in some than others. Many of us would love to dodge the problem entirely, but in some cases it’s absolutely unavoidable. For instance,
 giving a toast as the best man at a wedding or a college presentation leaves you no choice but to just go through it. The good news is that there are effective methods to help improve and correct your fears, allowing you to give great speeches. Here are just a few things to help you do this:Relax.Start off the process by relaxing yourself. Most people believe that certain things in life are stressful, and public speaking is no exception. The truth is, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to give nice, polished public presentations. The people you see giving speeches in front of large groups of people seem to have it down, but keep in mind that they too once started being terrified to speak. Their hands were trembling, voice felt as if it would give out, and there thoughts were cluttered in their mind. Does that sound familiar? If so, just know that they were able to eliminate their fears and so can you. Everyone is human, and if they are capable of doing something then you are too. Be confident with yourself. Change Your Perception of Public SpeakingA public speaker is an idea, almost like a job, and many people strive too hard to bring forth certain qualities that are necessary with being a public speaker. However, that’s not the way to proceed. You’re not trying to be a public speaker; you’re trying to be yourself. The majority of public speeches have gone wrong because the speaker tried to be something or someone that they’re not. Speaking in public is one of the few times that you can fully be yourself in the presence of others. Otherwise, your audience will see right through your false personality. Make your speech feel natural.

Oct 9

Five Tips to Combat the Fear of Public Speaking

Public Speaking – Be PreparedGlossophobia—the fear of public speaking.According to Wikipedia, glossophobia may affect as many as 75% of all people who have ever had to speak in public. There is a running joke that says statistics indicate that many people are more afraid of public speaking than they are of death. Public speaking is pretty much exactly what
 it sounds like: speaking in public, and many people are terrified of this prospect.In order to be an effective public speaker, and to alleviate some of the fears associated with public speaking, this article will present five tips to help you become an effective public speaker.1. Know Your AudienceIn order to be an effective public speaker, you have to know your audience. This is where the ‘who’ of public speaking comes into play. How you would address a group of teenagers would differ greatly from how you would address a group of, say, lawyers. This is a critical factor to effective public speaking. You need to know your audience, who they are, their demographics, and then prepare your presentation geared toward the majority of your target audience. When you know your audience and understand where you audience’s perspective will be before you have to speak, you will be much more comfortable when the time comes to make your presentation.2. Know Your Subject/TopicWhat will you be talking about? What is it you will be presenting? Whenever you give a talk, speech, recital, presentation – you are presenting something to your audience. What is it? Figure out what your topic is and research and study it so you are prepared. While you may have a presentation already lined out and ready to just stand up and read, the audience may ask you questions, and you should be prepared to answer them. The more you know about your topic, the ‘what’ of your presentation, the comfortable you will be when speaking and the more knowledgeable you will appear to your audience.3. Practice, Practice, Practice

Mar 6

Public Speaking Tips for Starters

Quick Hints for SpeakingAfter twenty years of college teaching, I’ve added a sideline: public speaking. Teachers often are in demand as experts in their specialty areas. But speaking to a group of business professionals is different from addressing a class of eighteen-year-olds. Anyone with a story to tell or a
 skill to teach can develop a presentation that can be geared to civic groups, social clubs, or professional organizations. Here are some of the things I’ve learned in making the jump from college teacher to public speaker.
“Thank you for the warm welcome. It’s a pleasure to be with your group today. Now, in the next minute turn to someone beside you and tell that person one thing you do not understand about the opposite sex.”This is my icebreaker for a gender communications presentation that is often in demand. Everyone has a question: “Why are women always on the phone?” “Why does he watch so many sports programs on t.v.?” So that first minute of interaction is lively and fun. After calling “time” I list their observations on the flip chart or white board as a point of departure for my session. Moving through the principles of gendered communication, I link each to the audience concerns posted in front of the room. As a member of our university campus’ speakers’ bureau, I have developed topics from my teaching expertise that impact daily activities and human nature. That is a good place to start when choosing a speaking platform. Then make sure you understand audience interest in your topic. Anyone can stand before a crowd to make a speech, but not all speeches are memorable or meaningful. Here are a few tips I’ve learned over the years to keep my listeners inviting me back for return engagements. 1. Link.
Whatever your topic, find ways to relate it to your group of listeners. Consider their ages, education levels, socio-economic background, and gender (unless it’s a mixed group). Younger audiences typically enjoy a fast-paced presentation like Power Point, while older groups sometimes prefer slower, more thoughtful sessions with details and explanation. Ask the coordinator about the type of session she feels will work best.