Alright so You’re Casually Dating a Guy, How Do You Get Him to Be Yours?So you are dating a guy but nothing offical and you are free to date others. You want more, you want him to be yours… offically. Here are five steps to make him yours. The only way they won’t work is if the guy isn’t in to you and just likes girls waiting on him anytime. Which, if
that’s the case, you’re better off anyways.Step OneStart doing other things than seeing him as often as you do. Still hang out with him and talk to him, but back off a little bit. If you guys go out four nights a week, cut it down to one or two. Also, cut some of your phonecalls with him shorter. Noticably shorter or fewer. Don’t totally back off, but just enough to where he’s craving for you and can’t wait to see you next. You want to do this because every guy likes the chase. The harder you are to get to the more he wants you. Guys like the excitement, as long as they know you are into them and they know eventually they will get you. That is why you don’t totally back off. You don’t want to seem an unreachable goal.Step Two If you are going to go hang out with a guy or guys make sure they know that. Even if the guy is stictly just a friend, he doesn’t know that. Then that tinge of jealousy will kick in and he knows he will have an opponent. This makes it more of a challenge for them. If they know other guys want you, or at least think they do, they will work harder to get you. Then they think they better to get you before someone else does. Every guy likes to have that “thing” every other guy wants. It makes him feel special.Guys like a fight. Every movie you watch guys are always fighting over something. Be that thing your guy wants to fight for. Remember though to always show him he has a chance.Step ThreeWhen you are out with this guy plan fun things like an amusement park even if its something like family fun center. Or go miniature golfing, especially if you suck at it. Do something fun and something where you can goof off and show him how fun you are to be with. Everyone wants to be with someone they can laugh, goof off, and be comfortable around. Laughter brings comfort. Also, he will see how beautiful you are when you laugh and smile. Dinner and a movie isn’t a date where you actually get to know a person.
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